18 months after multiligament knee surgery, what to expect?

[Pippinp]

I’m hoping someone out there has had similar surgery to me and can advise on whether I’m expecting too much of my reconstructed knee.
Almost 2 years ago, I had a ski injury and ruptured my MCL, ACL and LCL and tore my lateral meniscus.
3 weeks post-injury I had reconstruction of my MCL (synthetic graft) and LCL (hamstring autograft), and some sutures to my lateral meniscus. I then had 6 weeks in a brace. Then loads of physio and hydrotherapy to regain my range of movement and then 4 months later I had ACL reconstruction (hamstring autograft from the other leg).
I’ve done loads of physio, still going to gym 3x a week but struggling with all the things I still can’t do. I can’t run, jump, dance or wear heels. I’m rubbish on slippery surfaces, although uneven surfaces are getting easier. I’m managing to work and cautiously walk my dogs so it’s not all bad but it’s hard to accept all the things I can no longer do (which includes skiing!).
I am a female in my mid-40s, so I know I won’t recover as well as a younger person, but any information from others with similar injuries would be much appreciated.
I already posted this in the ligament section but got no replies so I’m trying it here on the general section.

[Pippinp]

Update - I have been back to see the knee surgeon this week and he feels that I am doing well considering how much of my knee I originally damaged (apparently I also damaged the posterolateral corner as well as what I’ve listed above). He thinks that what is holding me back is quadriceps wasting. I told him that I’ve done about a million squats! His advice was to continue working on the quads and he thinks that there could be continued improvement even this long after surgery and that eventually I might be able to run.
 Hope this information might help someone else in a similar situation to me.