Hi Kara,
I do not know where in the world you are so if some of this does not apply then sorry.
You can ask to see an independent specialist to evaluate your MRI and X-rays. Typically they would not be associated with your current specialist or hospital. If there is a problem as a result of your reconstruction they should be able to identify it.
The fact that your knee gives out is probably more due to the lack of muscle around your knee, as is some of the pain on walking. The clicking and catching could also be due to this and will get worse as the muscles waste. It is a bit of a Catch-22 situation when you are having pain when using an injured joint like the knee.
As for the numbness - yes it is a bit of a bummer but it happens. The whole of the inner side of my knee and calf, plus the shin are numb and that is getting on for 2.5 years after my revision. On my other knee I still have a numb patch after nearly 19 years. These are superficial numb areas - i.e. they are only in the skin, not deep tissue or joint numbness. I know how disconcerting it can be and if it is not handled properly from the beginning it is very easy to worry about it - believe me I've been there and done that. My numb patch on my right leg is very slowly reducing in size, the one on my left changes its size, mainly it seems with the weather.
You are obviously in defense mode with regards to your reconstruction and I don't blame you at all. Until you get some reassurance that things are OK you will not be able to overcome this.
You say it is only a "bit painful" when you keep it locked - by keeping it locked you are actually stopping your muscles from working properly. The lack of full extension could be a result of this as well as the pins and needles sensation. If it helps at all, I have the sensation most days that my shin is covered with cold jelly and has ants crawling around in it having a party! I have learnt to ignore it as it does not actually affect my gait.
Try to get an independent review and then get some intensive physiotherapy on a one-to-one basis. After this length of post-operative time, group therapy will only discourage you to be honest.
Good luck
Sue
