Hey Jak, I haven't been in the same position as you. But I just wanted to say, that surgery really can never make you better. It can improve quality of life, but cant' fix everything. I think that is an important part of the decision to have surgery, wether it will improve your quality of life. It's something you really should discuss with your surgeon. I wish I could offer you more, but I can't. Take care and good luck
Linds