Karen, Hi and thank you -I would love any suggestions, and my hubby would love to never go back to NYC. He liked Philly, so would be better for his role. Yes, JL has been a complete ass since I started not doing well -was a doll before surgery. Only reason I am still in contact with him is because I need pain meds. I feel like going to him was worst decision I ever made. -He actually told me it might take 5 years to feel better at my last visit, as if I would "wait" that long to get better. I could go on for hrs, so must stop myself. I am glad you avoided him and wish you a speedy recovery. I am hoping to have whatever I need near that same time-have to accrue PTO at work before I can afford to go out again. Thanks again!